Minggu, November 16, 2008

Change...

Quote said, people never change..yea sometimes its right but the fact is people sometimes change....and not easy for others to accept it especially if someones already enjoy with the situation.

The most significant change example is actually the bond between the parent and their kids....i was just thinking yesterday when i'm cutting my hair in a hair salon hahaha...there's a family with 3 sons...and looking at that 3 boys made me think that one day they will be grown up and becoming a different kind of person than what they are today. One day they won't cry or asking for help from their mom when the hair is on his body...they will not ask their dad to repair their toys....they won't go with their parent in the weekend and choose to spend it with their girl..and worse case scenario, the kid becoming a scum to their parent. hm.it's a change, something good for their own but as a parents the change might be not that good...looking at their kids not be around them anymore and looking their center of attention for years now gone, the kids aren't cute and sweet as they are when they're younger.

Some of the people in my life recently changing...dont know it's their decision to change cause they have to change,temporary change or other reason. It might be good for them...like what i've done. My friend once said i'm changing and she like dont know me...its good for me, but likely it isn't for others....change is good for them but it isn't for me...one thing i should do seems to be accept it...comfort is danger cause when u already enjoy it, lil different makes u hurt....

2 Comments:

nca said...

menurut gw kebalikannya..people changed. Pernyataan ini bisa keluar dari pengalaman gw. Gw 4 taon lalu bener2 beda ama gw yang sekarang. Beda lingkungan, beda pergaulan, ples umur yang makin nambah bikin sikap n terutama pemikiran gw tentang berbagai hal berubah..hoho..

Boris said...

ya gue juga mikir gitu, peoples change...and it's hard thing that u should accept